Enlightenment first. Sex later.

Enjoy the impulse only when you are perfectly capable of stepping back from it, and even smile at it. We are ready to handle power, pleasure or possession only when we are also ready to let go of them completely. One has to be a brahmachari first in its truest sense, to know what samsara is. Anything else is pure exploitation, however elegantly packaged.

And exploitation can never be love.